Imagine that you and a friend
are having lunch at a new Thai restaurant. After the waiter
serves the spring rolls, you notice that there are no chopsticks. “Isn’t
it funny,” you say, “I thought all oriental restaurants…” At
that exact moment your friend says, “Where are the
chopsticks? I wonder why…” And both of you laugh,
because you were about to say the same thing at the same
When two people have similar
characteristics, they often think, say and do similar things.
As in a dance, the partners mirror each other and move forward
together in familiar ways. When this happens, the relationship
feels comfortable. More often than not, the couple feels that
they understand each other—as if they were “soul mates.”
Harmony comes from personality
similarities. When two people have the same mindframe in their
comfort zones, the mindframe will be comfortable and familiar
to both and they’ll
use it frequently.
This kind of similarity can benefit a relationship
because it improves the likelihood of harmony. If your partner
is very much like you, there will be fewer surprises. Much of
the time, the two of you will be headed in the same direction,
and relating to each other will often seem effortless.
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