good for me.”
“When I’m with her, I’m
a whole person.”
When someone says something like this about
his or her companion, it usually means that they’re
different in important ways. One person brings something
valuable to the relationship that the other person doesn’t.
One person is strong in a way that the other isn’t.
In a relationship, two
people don’t always
think the same or act the same. When two people bring different
patterns and perspectives to a relationship, the differences
don’t have to be frustrating. They can lead to new ways
to experience fulfillment and happiness. Like chemistry, contrasting
personalities can interact to produce something greater than
the sum of the parts—a more enriched life.
Enrichment is much
more likely when personality differences aren’t
extreme. Whether the differences turn out to be beneficial depends
a lot on whether each person is able to reach out with patience
and understanding to accept, value and affirm what’s different
about the other.
here NOW to get your personalized "Compatility Forecast."
Discover what the future holds for your love relationship!